Son, You don’t even know you’re in Danger!

“Son, you don’t even know you’re in danger… You like a dumb deer caught in the headlights” Madea – Class Reunion

Breaking up is hard to do, but somebody’s gotta do it.
Usually when a chick breaks up with a dude, she’s been breaking up with him LONG before she actually did it.
I know that sounds messed up, but it’s true. We tend to try to make the relationship work even when it’s obvious that it isn’t. We stick around and give chance after chance because we love them and hope they love us enough to fix the problem. Doing this is usually just a waste of time, because nothing changes and we’re back to where we started.

I’m not about to start bashing men, I’m writing this so you guys can be on the lookout for certain signs that you are being dumped or replaced.
So here are some of the signs you’re about to lose your girl:

- She stops calling/texting you. This is one of those things that you may not even notice. Check your call logs. She is cutting off communication, that way when she breaks up with you it isn’t hard for her to stop talking to you, because she had already stopped.

- When you have an argument she say’s “Okay” and is all of a sudden not mad anymore or not hurt anymore. She’s starting not to even care anymore. She probably just wants you to shut up because it’s a waste of time since you’ll probably be broken up soon anyway!

- She stops caring about you not spending quality time together.

- She starts making plans without even inviting you or asking about your plans.

- Sex is sex… nothing more! Yes fellas we can do it to.

- She stops talking to you about her day or anything else she’s usually interesting in.

- She just stops caring! Everything is “I don’t care”, “It doesn’t matter”, or “If thats what you want to do”

Those are just some signs you can look out for… Those can also be signs that you are being “Monkey-Barred” (replaced), but thats a different subject for a different post